Hati Ibu Mesti Kental dan Kuat Bila Anak Dah Bersekolah..

Alhamdulillah.. syukur ke hadratnya.. kita sudah ke penghujung bulan January 2015.. means dah beberapa minggu anak-anak kita bersekolah kan.. mesti macam-macam perkara yang maybe "shock" kita as parents first time anak-anak masuk sekolah ni kan..

Well.. then.. so far.. macamana pengalaman uols anak-anak yang baru start sekolah especially baru mula primary school? anak-anak ok tak? masih nak berteman ke? so far.. miss sunshine ok.. tak pernah serik and hari-hari excited nak pi school.. alhamdulillah sangat for me.. its really beyond my perception..

so.. how about parents pulakss.. ada culture shock dak? huhuhu.. ada rasa nak pengsan ke nak urus anak school? dengan pembelajaran anak-anak? ada teacher2 komplain anak kita itu ini dak?

For me.. still adapting and learning.. anak dah start school means bukan anak saja yang start pembelajaran.. mak bapak pun sama start belajar.. yaaaa..hectics.. rushing here there and everwhere.. rasa macam tak cukup 24jam sehari.. but you know what I learnt the most bila miss sunshine dah start schooling nih..??? Jiwa dan mental kena kuat dan kental... sangat-sangat lah kena kuat dan kental..

1. tight schedule - bila anak sekolah petang, you mesti pepagi kesian nak kejutkan anak yang memangnya dah keletihan tuh bangun pagi-pagi persiapkan dia nak pergi day care.. you have to prepare siap2 anak punya packed food, iron sesiap pinafore segala and all  stuff.. kat day care plak ada macam-macam aktiviti, then as career woman, you tak boleh nak persiapkan anak you.. tak boleh tengok dia pegi school kiss and hug dekat school gate.. then only you meet anak dalam pukul 7 malam.. rehat sekejap.. dinner at 8.00++ dah kena start buat homework.. tengok-tengok siap homework dah pukul 10++ and time tu anak-anak dah flat.. terus tidor..

you know what.. weekdays miss sunshine now tak ada masa langsung do her favret thing.. >>>> watch movie.. hurmmmm..


2. banyak homework - semua orang tahu.. sjkc of kossss lah sangat banyak homework and tak pernah dalam sehari tak ada homework pun.. then mummy and daddy kena kuat bila anak dah start merengek nak watch cartoon ka muvie ka.. sometime they dah terlalu tiring buat homework sampai buat sambil menangis.. Tuhan saja tahu rasa hati mak-mak kan.. tersangkut kat kerongkong tengok anak macam tuh.. nak saja tolong buat kan.. but please.. mama sorry.. its for your own good.. u cant see it now.. later sayang..


3. school book yang banyak - yang nih.. tak dapat dinafikan lah.. total subjek 8 sahaja.. plus2 buku latihan, intensif itu ini setiap subjuk ada 4-5 biji.. buku tulis.. satu subjek ada sampai 8 biji buku nak bawak.. end up sangat lah berat beg sekolah si anak.. what i learned tak payahlah bising-bising beg school anak berat lah apa lah.. be positif..kadang2 me pelik parents yang banyak komplain ni.. u have many option kan.. like beli beg beroda? tak faham why some parents too many complaint, then what u expect ur kids to be if u already have such a behavior? ermmmm my 10cent..


4. rushing break time - bila dapat tau anak you break only 15 minit.. you mesti like "what? 15 minute only? macamana nak makan? anak-anak nak beli makan.. main... bla bla bla...." .. no issue with 15 minit punya break.. for me la.. coz me dah bekalkan miss sunshine packed food.. we tak encourage her beli makan kat kantin pun.. thats no problem for me.. well its about discipline matter.. sometimes we have to let teachers to do their job..


5. hilang stationary / duit / tumbler - hahaha.. this one i bet semua parents pun hadapi.. same goes to miss sunshine.. duit hilang dengan purse2 pun.. but after 3 days jumpa balik.. pensil, eraser, kaler pencil.. bila tanya "owh, i left it on my table".. pesan esok suruh bawak balik.. dia ok kan saja.. takda maknanya lah nak dapat balik kan.. even ko dah labelkan sesiap dah segala setiap batang maknek stuff dia.. sabor jer laa.. base on one month experience, xperlu bawak pencil ka or any stationaries even thumbler yang havoc2 frozen ka apa ka.. hilang! kompom!


6. anak kena denda - bila balik rumah, cek anak punya school beg, packed food tak bersentuh..

bila ditanya : "why you dint finish your food not even touch it at all? "..
dia reply : "i cant go to canteen, teacher marah.. i have to finish my work.."

gulpppp.. mak telan air liur.. dalam kepala apekes cikgu nih.. agak2 la kan.. anak baru darjah satu kot.. takkan nak denda sampai tak pergi break kot..

and bila you waited in front of the school gate, nak pick up anak you.. anak yang selalu happy go lucky tuh tengah crying.. bila nampak kelibat you lagi dia melalak lalak.. owhhh such a bleeding heart moment.. trust me.. its sooooo hurt tengok anak you menangis..

bila ditanya : "what happen to you.. why you crying like this? "..
dia reply : "teacher marah.. i not read my book.."

hurmmmm.. then you kena kuat.. thats it.. thats the fact you have to face it.. let it be.. let her learn.. if she deserve the punishment, then proceed as long as tak melampau sampai patah-patah, sampai cacat, sampai buta..  i don't want to interfere much about her studies in school.. she has to learn to be responsible and independent.. you kena kuat to "let go" your kids..

7. kenakalan - budak-budak surely memanglah nakal.. tak nakal then something wrong somewhere.. kadang-kadang terpikir jugak.. miss sunshine ok tak kat school ada budak-budak lain kacau dia tak.. buat dia tak.. kalau ada budak lain buat dia, dia balas balik tak, or biarkan saja.. susah hati jugak lah mikirkan tuh.. but we have to be positive here.. budak-budak punya masalah jangan dimasuk campur.. kekadang depa sama-sama depa ok saja kan.. kita yang tua-tua mak pak nih yang lelebih.. then asalkan tak jadi apa-apa yang tak elok.. biarkan sajalah.. bagi depa independent jangan duk campur.. but i know miss sunshine nih garang sikit.. bully2 thingy i think insya Allah she know to handle it.. so far i didnt hear any complaint lahh..

8. communication - hiew hiew hiew... yang ni parah sikit lah.. sebab bila anak duk bersembang mandarin.. ko boleh senyum jer.. buat-buat faham.. bila dedepan orang anak ko mintak something or habaq something duk "mummy... wo you... bla bla bla..." ko cecepat lah heret anak ko jejauh and tanya dia suh repeat apa anak ko nak dalam bahasa yang kau orang pahamlahhh.. except kalau daddy nya ada.. well.. suka hati lah apa2 awak pi mintak ngan daddy.. as bila kat school pun masa tengokkan 1st week dia more communicate with daddy than me.. mummy ada just as syarat to escort only.. hahahahaha.. well.. mummy tak paham kekdahnya... huhuhuhuhu..


Oppss panjang gila.. okok stop sekarang..


Assalamualaikum..
LadyofGee.